This guide provides practical strategies, activities, and resources to help parents and caregivers support SEL at home.
Why Family Involvement in SEL Matters
📌 Strengthens Emotional Intelligence – Children develop self-awareness and self-regulation with guidance from parents. 📌 Enhances Communication & Relationships – Open discussions about emotions foster trust and connection. 📌 Improves Academic & Behavioral Outcomes – SEL skills like perseverance and empathy contribute to better school performance. 📌 Creates a Supportive Home Environment – Encourages a culture of emotional safety and respect.
How to Involve Families in SEL
1. Provide SEL Workshops for Parents & Caregivers
✅ Organize parent education nights to teach emotional intelligence and child development. ✅ Offer virtual webinars on stress management, mindfulness, and positive discipline. ✅ Share SEL-based parenting techniques through newsletters and school websites.
📖 Case Study: SEL Family Nights in Texas A school district in Texas launched monthly SEL workshops for parents. These events included interactive activities on emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, and family bonding. Student behavioral incidents decreased by 30% within a year, and parents reported stronger family relationships.
2. Send SEL Newsletters with Home-Based Activities
✅ Share weekly SEL tips through emails or printed newsletters. ✅ Include simple conversation starters for parents to discuss emotions with children. ✅ Suggest family-friendly SEL activities, such as gratitude journaling or storytelling.
📖 Example SEL Newsletter Topics:
- How to Teach Empathy Through Everyday Conversations
- Mindfulness Techniques for the Whole Family
- Managing Big Emotions at Home: A Parent’s Guide
3. Encourage Parents to Model SEL Skills
✅ Demonstrate positive communication and active listening at home. ✅ Practice self-regulation strategies, such as deep breathing or counting to ten before reacting. ✅ Show empathy and problem-solving by discussing real-life situations with children.
📖 Case Study: The Power of Parental Modeling A study found that children of parents who practice mindful communication and use SEL strategies at home show higher levels of self-control and empathy in school settings.
4. Host Family Engagement Nights Focused on SEL
✅ Plan family storytelling nights where kids and parents share emotions and experiences. ✅ Organize SEL-themed game nights that encourage teamwork and decision-making. ✅ Provide hands-on SEL craft activities, like creating emotion charts or gratitude jars.
📖 Example: SEL Family Engagement Night Agenda
- 6:00 PM – Welcome & Icebreaker: Emotion Charades 🎭
- 6:30 PM – SEL Activity: Family Strengths Tree 🌳
- 7:00 PM – Discussion: How We Handle Emotions at Home 🏠
- 7:30 PM – Closing Reflection & Take-Home SEL Tools 📝
5. Share SEL Conversation Starters for Families
✅ Encourage families to talk about emotions at dinner time or bedtime. ✅ Provide open-ended questions that spark meaningful discussions. ✅ Use storybooks and media as tools to discuss SEL themes.
📖 Examples of SEL Conversation Starters:
- “What’s something kind you did for someone today?”
- “Can you tell me about a time you felt frustrated? How did you handle it?”
- “What does being a good friend mean to you?”
6. Develop Home-School SEL Partnerships
✅ Create Parent SEL Advisory Groups where caregivers can provide feedback and collaborate with schools. ✅ Offer one-on-one coaching sessions for parents who need extra support. ✅ Partner with local organizations to bring SEL resources and workshops to the community.
📖 Case Study: Parent-Led SEL Committees A school in New York City created a Parent SEL Advisory Board to enhance family-school collaboration. Parents helped shape SEL policies, co-facilitated workshops, and developed home-learning toolkits, strengthening SEL implementation at home and in school.
Family SEL Toolkit: Downloadable Resources
✔ Family SEL Conversation Guide – 20+ questions to spark meaningful discussions. ✔ Emotion Regulation Strategies for Kids & Parents – Simple mindfulness and coping exercises. ✔ SEL Activity Book for Families – Fun, interactive exercises to build emotional intelligence. ✔ Monthly SEL Calendar – Daily challenges to practice social-emotional skills at home.
🔗 Access the Full Family SEL Toolkit Here
Conclusion
Engaging families in SEL is a powerful way to reinforce emotional intelligence, communication, and resilience at home. By providing workshops, sharing resources, and fostering home-school partnerships, caregivers can help children build essential life skills for long-term success.
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Want to learn more?
2. Ask your school administration to use Seltrove's student SEL workbooks or digital class packs this school year with your child's classroom.
- The Whole Brain Child by Dan Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
- How to Talk so Kids Will Listen & Listen so Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
- Siblings without Rivalry by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
- Raising Human Beings by Ross Greene